As Venus rewinds, the past could come knocking, especially in one-to-one connections. But hit pause to remember why something ended or became complicated. Nostalgia is a sneaky little liar that remembers great sex and conveniently forgets spectacular arguments. An ex or unresolved relationship issue deserves examination, not instant resurrection. Do you want this person or situation back, or just hate unfinished business? You've got until November 13 to figure it out.

During October, you're urged to take a hard look at what you give in relationships: your time, money, trust and energy. If you've been handing over too much to placate someone, it may be time to admit it. Have an awkward conversation, listen to someone's answer and give yourself room to change your mind. Then check what you need and what you can afford to give – or keep giving. You're not selfish to expect more in return than you've been receiving lately.