Variety, we know, is the spice of life. Sometimes, 'spice' can turn something otherwise bland into some delicious or spectacular. You might experience tension in a close relationship this week but rather than focus on what's frustrating about it, focus instead on how it's keeping things interesting and buoyant. A bit of tension can be perfect for clearing the air or allowing both sides to release concealed thoughts or feelings. A bit of drama could end up bringing a heartwarming result.

Events during October might feel as if you're grabbed by the collar to accept numerous truths. Coming weeks will be a time when your perspective and beliefs alter - physically, emotionally and even spiritually. What you discover about yourself might feel like a cold shower, but sometimes, when we experience intense heat, a cold shower can be rejuvenating! From October 5 until November 16, Venus is retrograde. This will push you to be brutally honest with yourself and possibly someone else about what you need from a relationship. You're no longer happy keeping quiet or ignoring where you're unfulfilled. You're capable of taking a lover to new emotional depths – but before you can experience deep, intense love with someone else, you must learn to love yourself. Expect some delightful revelations where that's concerned.