Jealousy isn't proof somebody's doing something wrong. With Venus reversing until November, relationships could push every insecurity button you've got, and an ex might return just to make things messier. Before accusing or interrogating, ask what's triggering you. Old baggage? A genuine red flag? Fear of losing control? Say what you need instead of expecting somebody to read your mind. Have the uncomfortable conversation and stop treating love like a crime scene.

During October, you're urged to take a hard look at what you give in relationships: your time, money, trust and energy. If you've been handing over too much to placate someone, it may be time to admit it. Have an awkward conversation, listen to someone's answer and give yourself room to change your mind. Then check what you need and what you can afford to give – or keep giving. You're not selfish to expect more in return than you've been receiving lately.